Chesney Vang’s Testimony Regarding Soua (Tooj Kub) Vang’s Character

So that Chesney’s testimony can more easily be found, we’ve copied and past it below, and this LINK will take you directly to the section where she responded as a comment to Sydney’s testimony.

I wanted to keep this simple, but there is no way that I can.
I am the second youngest daughter of this man, Soua, and I came to speak on my own volition after seeing some things that my biological father has been posting. All I want to share is my experience growing up and living with this family has been like.

The first moments I found out that there was something off and evil about my father was when I was around the age of eight years old or so. All I remember from this first moment is that my mom was working all day and my dad had to sleep and rest before his graveyard shift. My younger sibling and I were just children so we would be a little loud in the house. The first thing my father resorted to do to stop of from being loud was verbally threatening us to shut up or he will beat us up. My sister and I then began to cry out of fear. Crying had only made the situation worse because he was so close to beating us up that we had to suck up our own 7 and 8 year old tears.

The second moment I discovered there was something off with my dad was the first day I witnessed him physically abusing both of my mothers. I was too young to understand what was happening, but all I knew was that I was afraid and sad to see my own father beat two of what he calls his “lovers” up like punching bags. At this moment, I understood how little he cared about his family.

Since then, I observed and learned how patient, respectful, and sweet my mother, Va, is and how evil, deceiving, and manipulating my father is. For years from when I was very young, I’ve watched him smile, laugh, and boast about what a great man he is to his relatives. Every time we would visit a relative, all he would talk about is himself and do his best to spread word about his achievements and about how “great” of a man he was (from what I remember). For years, I’ve watched him master manipulation and use psychological tricks to make people think he is a man of goodness, and he’s succeeded to trick everyone into thinking whatever HE WANTED THEM TO THINK. It is why when you try to talk to this man he is always smiling and laughing. He believes it is a way for people to believe he is a nice guy. From my own speculation, this man only cares about having a positive reputation. He would smile and please people outside of the family and treated his own family like trash at home.

This man does not know how to raise children, for he has never been a supportive person and only proud when one of his children does something good because it makes him look better from the outside. Personally, he has never been there for me or for the other children at all. He treated us like pets and slaves. He bribed us with candy to do good things like an owner to a dog.

He once told me that his only purpose of having children was to make them take care of him when he becomes old. He says that we should be grateful he brought us to this world, but he forgets to add that he means we should be grateful he brought us to this world to serve at his feet in order to benefit him and his selfish desires. He also once told me he would use me to make him rich only because of two acting auditions I did well with at the age of 13.

As you can see, this man does not have a care in the world about his family at all. He is so immature and irresponsible that he cannot even solve this issue on his own like a grown, mature man. He instead makes this a big deal and involves other people into this mess so that he’s not alone and to make him look better. I’ve also learned that this man is chronically incapable of taking responsibility for his own behavior. Never in my life have I ever heard him take fault or responsibility for anything he has done. He only ever pretends to not know what he’s done just to sound innocent. It is the reason why he can only complain and explain what “bad things” the family has done to him and not WHY his family has done things to him. His trick is to hide what he’s done and to expose and share what the family has done to him in response to his actions, putting my mom and my siblings in a bad light for people who don’t know who he is.

Now, about my mom.
My mom. She is the sweetest, most kind, patient, loving, and respectful person I’ve ever met. No other person’s goodness can compare to hers. She is forgiving and accepting. My mom has chosen the goodness in her heart to provide the most perfect life for her children the best way that she could. She decided to endure pain, jealousy, bruises, and other sorts of suffering and torture for almost 50 years of her life for the sake of peace, happiness, and neutrality. I still don’t know enough about my mom and her sufferings because she has kept them to herself for all these years to keep my peace and happiness. There is not much to say about her besides that she persistently chooses peace and respect over hatred and revenge.

Two more things I have to say before I end this reply. My sister, Hnubci, is the bravest and smartest sibling in the family. I’d like to defend only once that she would never do drugs. Through thick and thin, through terrible parenting and struggle, she has always stayed tough for herself. She is the first and only child to have had a full college education. She has achieved this with her own dedication and determination to become the best version of herself always. I do not appreciate my own father talking down on our second best role model. Besides my mom, Hnubci was practically the second, real teacher for at least the three youngest siblings.
Another thing I don’t appreciate is the way my father is sharing private information to the public like this. I can only think this is his evil plan and attempt to make my mom’s life even more miserable than it has been for the past 50 years of her life. It is a vengeful attack because he cannot and will not ever believe he’s done anything wrong since he believes that he’s so perfect. This man suffers narcissism and egoism. I can only say this from experiencing what he is like. I do not expect anyone to believe me. I just expect that you accept my words.

My final thought to conclude this message is that this man has chased away his own family due to bad parenting, mistrust, deceit, physical abuse and because he refuses to believe he’s ever wrong. I never felt safe being around this man since I was 8 years old.